As we know making love is a great 'de-stressor'. It enables the body to release energetically, and just surrender to making love.
It is scientifically proven that in the first two years of a relationship people go through a particular state of being in love, and that impacts on the proteins in their body. After that science says that activity tends to balance out, and the protein returns to normal.
So then, as the questioner is out of the honeymoon phase of 'in love' stage, and they've been together three years, we can see the quality of their relationship and what is happening.
So how do we measure the quality of the relationship, and its compatibility?
After three years if it is as good as it was when it began, then you are on high % of a win-win for both of you. If it isn't then maybe you should review the relationship. If your partner is honest with you, then he probably doesn't wish to get married, and that is most likely the root of his behavior and response to you.
I had been with my partner for two years, prior to me agreeing to marry him. Two years was enough for me to say yes, we are compatible, mind, heart, body and soul. Yes, you are the man that I could spend the rest of my life with. The first proposal came after three weeks of us knowing each other.
I also feel that if a person has to ask the guys in the public domain, then their intuition already knows the answer, and it is confirmation of what they feel, that is why they were asking.
The other points of the measure are this.
Does the relationship bring you peace, wholeness, and is the relationship in well-being? For peace and wholeness will be your governor, and well-being will be your ruler. Make sure that any relationship is healthy for you, because it will impact greatly on your peace, your whole life and its well-being.
As we know, 'compatibility', is essential. The kama sutra speaks about the importance of it, and the perfect fit. It also speaks of natural talent, and solomon certainly appreciated that in the ladies. Natural talent can also be viewed in terms of physical form. In December 2011, I wrote about it in terms of Radha and divine conduct.
In addition to our recent post on Rada as mentioned in the book of Genesis. One can also describe it as a 'manner of conduct'. In Hebrew the word rada is also spelt with h the same as the Indians Radha. In the book of Solomon, Song of Songs.
My dove, my undefiled, is but one; the only one of her mother; she is the choice one of her that bare her: the daughters saw her, and blessed her; yea, the queens and the concubines, and they praised her. [1]
LORD'S RADA
No coincidence than that verse where rada appears is Genesis 1.26 because 26 is the Hebrew gematria value of the name of the LORD God. In English gematria the word rada has the value of 144, and as we know there are 144,000 souls of the spiritually elect mentioned in the book of revelation. [2]
Fancy that, Indian philosophy in the bible. The doves were also to do with the mystics from ancient Greece, so you can be sure that King Solomon liked to make love to the mystics, that the LORD covers in feathers.
1. http://academysounds.blogspot.co.uk/2011/12/radha-conduct-radha-krishna.html
2. http://academysounds.blogspot.co.uk/2011/12/lords-rada.html
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