Wednesday 23 December 2015

December Bereavements

Family bereavements that happen in December impact on life and how people respond to it and the holiday time. So much so, that some people didn't like to stay at home when the anniversary of the passing came around again. So they went away into a different reality.

It especially impacts on women, when it is their mother, (Sophia) and daughters if it is their dad, the Son of Joseph.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1XdVFhJdEL0

If a woman is bereaved of a mother in December, and also her husband. How huge is that bereavement for the women in the family.



When there is a December bereavement, and when there is more than one, it brings to the fore what is really important in life, and it isn't trees covered in balls, or presents under the tree.

Only those with a conscience truly care for those that have been bereaved, only those with a heart understand how and why they feel the way that they do about these holidays.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t2kO_Jm96I0

The Son of Joseph was such a man, that understood his wife and where she was coming from. Love beyond measure to them both, as I am sure they are watching their children and grandchildren. For there is life after death.

I remember the last thing that the Son of Joseph bought for his grandson, a go-kart from Hamley's. It was his greatest joy to give to the child - and to see his face that shone as the sun. That was his last message to my son, 'Go-Kart', a go-kart that he could drive.

Israelites are givers.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A4XqdCxyKRA


What will you do to make your mums and dads happy with you this holiday?

Will you honour your family and their choices in life?

Will you love your parents unconditionally, and compassionately, for everything that they did for you,  in love beyond measure that they shared?

Just do your best and they are happy with you.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGYXEAsmpIs

'Who keeps an oath (to love) even when it hurts, and does not change their mind'. Psalm 15:4





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